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I become more convinced each day that the life that we want is framed inside of the ongoing pursuit of something joyful, meaningful, and significant. Even if we think we aren’t ready, can’t, or don’t have time for it.
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For reasons I do not understand nor have I purposefully cultivated, I am a “jump in” kind of person. Feet first. Sometimes without looking. There are a lot of days where I wish I had a little more chill. I wish I would think to pause first, then act. I wish I had a little more temperance. But I mostly believe that this trait has served me well over the years. “Paralysis by analysis” isn’t exactly something that happens to me often. When it comes to friends, loved ones and clients, however, I hear all the time all the reasons why someone isn’t starting something, pulling the trigger, or doing something they are passionate about. And they are often actually very good reasons.
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But if you come to me with that, I’ll likely not let it lie. I’ll likely become the biggest cheerleader for you to do the thing. At this moment in time, a friend of mine is finally publishing that children’s book. Another friend of mine just built a pottery studio in her basement. And I am lining up women for spring portraits who are ready to “step out of their comfort zones”.
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If you have been waiting for a nudge, consider this that nudge. In the end, no one is really there to push you. It happens when you decide to jump. I’ll be here cheering you on.
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I did a “model call” shoot over the weekend, which basically means asking for a volunteer to be my muse and my model for a day while I creatively play with my camera or sharpen up some technique. Even though she wholeheartedly agreed to do the session, my model felt a bit giddy and nervous about “being out of her comfort zone”. In the end, we came away with an amazing gallery of images to capture this time in her life in a pretty and special Chicago landmark. Still editing and agreeing to image shares, but for now, here’s a few shots from our location, which also serve as a reminder to me that I’m happy when I’m behind the lens.
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Wishing you a few moments today to reflect on that thing. That thing you have been hesitating on. That thing that won’t leave you alone. That thing you keep putting off until you “have more time” (When is that? Seriously when is that ever?). Once you’ve found it, I am sending you a big hug and a cheer to jump in. Feet first. The water will be fine, I promise.
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Thanks for following along!
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Gina D. Graham, LCSW is a therapist and a portrait photographer whose work is aimed at empowering women to embrace and celebrate their true and natural beauty. Gina has written a book about culture and body image for women called Body Beautiful, How Changing the Conversation About Our Bodies Has the Power to Change the World. Gina practices therapy part time and offers portrait sessions for milestones, maternity, new motherhood, teens, empowerment, or just because in the suburbs of Chicago. To find out more about Gina and her work, visit lifelensandlove.com